The girl has spotted you and she’s chasing you. You politely want to
ward off her advances. MARTIN D’SOUZA shows you how
She makes regular eye contact and tosses
Guys, you’re in for trouble; if you want to stay away that
is! If you don’t, this is an open invitation from the girl.
Well, she may just want to flirt without having sex on her mind,
but when you get close and friction begins, there’s no saying
where it may lead to. The best way to avoid an awkward situation
would be to smile back and get back to your work. She may not
get the hint and may try again, but keep at it, she’ll surely
move on once you ‘cold shoulder’ her with a warm smile.
She finds ways of making way to where
Once you are her focus of attention, she will find excuses to
make conversation with you. She’ll lean a little offering
a view of her amble bosom. You have difficulty tearing your eyes
off. To add to your woes, there’s that familiar ache (you
know where). But man, stand up; you have to put your foot down!
Best way to skirt this issue would be to move a little behind,
tell her she needs to button up and switch the conversation to
other mundane issues. This will have her wondering if she has
a problem. Of course, your problem of getting her off your back
has been solved!
Your Inbox is jammed with her SMS’s….
She sends you those sexy one-liners like… “Dude you
looking hot today… wots up?” You know what she wants,
you ache to give it but then, you are a man of principles. No
One Night Stands or casual flings for you. More importantly, you
don’t like what you are seeing. Meaning, the girl is not
your type. At the same time, you don’t want to hurt her
feelings. Ignore those messages and if they still persist, send
one saying she reminds you of her sister. That will have her running
for cover for sure.
Every time she’s with you, she
steers to a hot conversation…
Girls love to do this with the guy they take a liking to. To be
honest, guys love to indulge in this soft ‘hot talk’
too. But then you are not wanting to go any further and she goes
on about how great her assets are and the way men drool over her
you know what! You want to add your two-bit too but hey, remember,
you are a man of integrity and she’s definitely not your
type. Smile sweetly, appear embarrassed and steer clear from the
conversation. Tell her how nice the weather is and how you like
to spend your evenings -- taking your grandma out for walks. This
will surely dampen her spirit.
She finds innovative ways to touch you…
Things are fine between the two of you as you converse. But out
of the blue, she reaches for your hand or just tries to make physical
contact. Her hand lingers on yours for just that extra moment
when she searches your eye for a reaction. You long to hold on.
But remember, you want to let go. Tell her you have skin allergy.